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Why it's so hard to leave "good enough"

Why it's so hard to leave "good enough"By: Ellee Picken Published on: 25/01/2026

Leaving a life that looks 'fine' on paper is often harder than leaving one that is objectively bad. This post explores the 'good enough' trap, the shame of wanting more, and how to honour your intuition without crashing your nervous system.

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Why it's so hard to leave "good enough"

Why Your 'Fine' Life Feels Suffocating

Why Your 'Fine' Life Feels SuffocatingBy: Ellee Picken Published on: 18/01/2026

Do you have a life that looks 'fine' on paper but feels suffocating in reality? Learn about the Stability Anchor and how "functional freeze" keeps us stuck in the familiar.

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Why Your 'Fine' Life Feels Suffocating

2026: Making Soul-Led Decisions in a Year 1

2026: Making Soul-Led Decisions in a Year 1By: Ellee Picken Published on: 11/01/2026

2026 has an energy supportive of new beginnings and fresh starts. Making a Soul-Led Decision is the best way to plant seeds that will grow into what you truly want.

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2026: Making Soul-Led Decisions in a Year 1

Helping Others When It’s Hard: Who Are You in That Moment?

Helping Others When It’s Hard: Who Are You in That Moment?By: Ellee Picken Published on: 13/09/2025

Do you help or walk past? The moments when it’s inconvenient show your patterns — and give you the power to intentionally choose who you want to be.

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Helping Others When It’s Hard: Who Are You in That Moment?

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